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hackerumas 02-18-2009 12:08 AM

13 Year old boy becomes a Father !!!
 
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BOY dad Alfie Patten yesterday admitted he does not know how much nappies cost — but said: “I think it’s a lot.”

Baby-faced Alfie, who is 13 but looks more like eight, became a father four days ago when his girlfriend Chantelle Steadman gave birth to 7lb 3oz Maisie Roxanne.

He told how he and Chantelle, 15, decided against an abortion after discovering she was pregnant.

The shy lad, whose voice has not yet broken, said: “I thought it would be good to have a baby.

“I didn’t think about how we would afford it. I don’t really get pocket money. My dad sometimes gives me £10.”

Alfie, who is just 4ft tall, added: “When my mum found out, I thought I was going to get in trouble. We wanted to have the baby but were worried how people would react.

“I didn’t know what it would be like to be a dad. I will be good, though, and care for it.”

Alfie’s dad Dennis told how the lad does not really understand the enormity of his situation — but seemed desperate to be a devoted and responsible father.


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He wanted to be the first to hold Maisie after the hospital birth. He tenderly kisses the baby and gives her a bottle.

And Dennis, 45, said: “He could have shrugged his shoulders and sat at home on his Playstation. But he has been at the hospital every day.”

Maisie was conceived after Chantelle and Alfie — just 12 at the time — had a single night of unprotected sex.

They found out about the baby when Chantelle was 12 weeks pregnant.

But they kept it a secret until six weeks later when Chantelle’s mum Penny, 38, became suspicious about her weight gain and confronted her.

After that Alfie’s family told only those closest to them for fear he would be “demonised” at school.

Chantelle gave birth to Maisie on Monday night after a five-hour labour at Eastbourne Hospital, East Sussex.

Last night she told The Sun: “I’m tired after the birth. I was nervous after going into labour but otherwise I was quite excited.”

Chantelle told how she discovered she was expecting after going to her GP with “really bad” stomach pains. She said: “Me and Alfie went. The doctor asked me whether we had sex. I said yes and he said I should do a pregnancy test. He did the test and said I was pregnant. I started crying and didn’t know what to do.

“He said I should tell my mum but I was too scared.

“We didn’t think we would need help from our parents. You don’t really think about that when you find out you are pregnant. You just think your parents will kill you.”

But Penny figured out what was going on after buying Chantelle a T-shirt which revealed her swelling tum.

Chantelle admitted she and Alfie — who are both being supported by their parents — would be accused of being grossly irresponsible. She said: “We know we made a mistake but I wouldn’t change it now. We will be good loving parents.

“I have started a church course and I am going to do work experience helping other young mums.

“I’ll be a great mum and Alfie will be a great dad.”

Chantelle and Maisie were released from hospital yesterday. They are living with Penny, Chantelle’s jobless dad Steve, 43, and her five brothers in a rented council house in Eastbourne. The family live on benefits. Alfie, who lives on an estate across town with mum Nicola, 43, spends most of his time at the Steadmans’ house.

He is allowed to stay overnight and even has a school uniform there so he can go straight to his classes in the morning.

Alfie’s dad, who is separated from Nicola, believes the lad is scared deep down.

He said: “Everyone is telling him things and it’s going round in his head. It hasn’t really dawned on him. He hasn’t got a clue of what the baby means and can’t explain how he feels. All he knows is mum and dad will help.

“When you mention money his eyes look away. And she is reliant on her mum and dad. It’s crazy. They have no idea what lies ahead.”

Dennis, who works for a vehicle recovery firm, described Alfie as “a typical 13-year-old boy”.

He said: “He loves computer games, boxing and Manchester United.” Dennis, who has fathered nine kids, told how he was “gobsmacked” when he discovered Alfie was to be a dad, too.

He said: “When I spoke to him he started crying. He said it was the first time he’d had sex, that he didn’t know what he was doing and of the complications that could come.

“I will talk to him again and it will be the birds and the bees talk. Some may say it’s too late but he needs to understand so there is not another baby.”
Lovely

Chantelle’s mum said: “I told her it was lovely to have the baby but I wish it was in different circumstances. We have five children already so it’s a big financial responsibility. But we are a family and will pull together and get through.

“She’s my daughter. I love her and she will want for nothing.”

Last night Michaela Aston, of the anti-abortion Christian charity LIFE, said: “We commend these teenagers for their courage in bringing their child into the world.

“At the same time this is symptomatic of the over-sexualisation of our youngsters and shows the policy of value-free sex education just isn’t working.”

Today Sussex Police and the local council's children services said they have investigated the case and pledged continued support for the young parents.

Britain’s youngest known father is Sean Stewart. He became a dad at 12 when the girl next door, 15-year-old Emma Webster, gave birth in Sharnbrook, Bedford, in 1998. They split six months later.
http://www.smh.com.au/world/13yearol...0216-88ca.html

with 14, 15 or 16 the first time is okay, but with 12? oh my god! i don't wanna know their parents... !!!

Gamr1469 02-18-2009 12:33 AM

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this is why we need to to teach children proper condom usage...its way better than that abstinence stuff they preach...kids are gonna have sex...either way...why not have them protect them selves???

Freshgrease 02-18-2009 01:36 AM

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They decided there were a few more candidates for the father of that baby (here). Alfie and family are forcing DNA tests between him and the other candidates.

Jaxon 02-18-2009 08:28 AM

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Bloody chavs.

Babyface BK 02-18-2009 10:25 AM

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I read about this the day The Sun headlined it and watched it on the news. Parents these days are fucking idiots, they're such a bad influence for out generation. Even my own parents who used to whoop my ass had a better judgement on how to raise children. These people disgust me, I give the kid credit for banging a chick at his age though.

shadow_moon 02-18-2009 11:53 AM

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whoa.. they've have sex but they didn't know that there is a chance that the girl would be pregnant...

before reading the news, i thought the kid was just a sperm donor that's why he became a dad..

seanizzzle 02-18-2009 08:43 PM

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^ Hahaha..well said..

man parents these days r fukn idiots/stupid..This is jus fukn stupid the kid is thirteen he shud know baout condoms already or else he as been spending too much time on his ps3...if that happened to me my dad would whoop my ass till kingdom come. Telling the kid about the birds and the bees now is kinda useless. The whole point of it is to prevent it from happening not prevent a second child.

Tsuna 02-18-2009 09:31 PM

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Good lord, goddamnit.

akuryuken 02-18-2009 10:06 PM

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i know this is some fuck up thing but this was funny The shy lad, whose voice has not yet broken, said: “I thought it would be good to have a baby." just WTF was this kid thinking.

Last Leaf shinobi 02-18-2009 10:06 PM

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Yo he sounds innocent too ... talking bout i don't get that much pocket money ... Boy Stop!!

Time to step ur game up Raking lawns for 10 dollars ain't gonna cut it... and u still gotta go to school ... get ur edumacation.

Kids gonna have sex ed after he has his first kid ... wtf!!

Azumi 02-23-2009 02:50 AM

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lol this is what will happen if curiosity gets on to someone's head. too bad for the boy, though. i bet he wasnt even circumcised yet. lol

The Assassins Curse 02-23-2009 08:29 PM

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God damn....dumbasses....

catilena1890 03-02-2009 11:41 AM

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Dear god, they actually wanted to be parents? oh lord... and how the heck were two 12-year-olds left alone long enough to get "down and dirty" anyway? I say shame on the parents.

Hurricane Chronicles 03-02-2009 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by catilena1890 (Post 1663870)
Dear god, they actually wanted to be parents? oh lord... and how the heck were two 12-year-olds left alone long enough to get "down and dirty" anyway? I say shame on the parents.

The same way u got down and dirty when u lost ur virginity they keep the noise down

kluang 03-02-2009 06:41 PM

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Mom: Honey go buy the baby some diapers.

Dad: Sorry no pocket money.


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