Originally Posted by Greendayfan82905
Okay i started going out with the guy i like 35 minutes ago and we hung up the phone with each other cuz he had to do something at 3:30, and we had been dating for 20 min. And i said "Bye" and he said "I love you". Its sweet that he loves me and all... but after 20 min i don't love him. I like him a lot but thats it...
I hung up the phone right after he said it, pretending that i didn't hear it. But what if he says that tomorrow in rl. I can't just hang up a phone and say i didn't hear him cuz it's rl.
i want nl's opinion on this cuz the people i've met so far on nl are pretty nice so yeah.
I apparently showed up late for the peak lol of this thread... As usual. I was gonna give you some nice advice, but seeing as how immature you are as a 14 year old, my advice had a change of heart.
If he said he loved you after only 20 min, either he doesn't love you and those are just words, or what was said before about the fact that he's clingy. I don't know about the emo stuff, since I don't know him enough to say that; but it seems like you need to confront him and ask him if he really meant what he said when he said "i love you" or not. Because the moment you want to say if for real and he says "i love you too", you'll have no idea if he's really saying the truth, or just saying it.
WORDS ARE CHEAP.
edit:...though, not all the time, if that gave you the wrong impression. lol Words can mean alot. But if they don't mean anything, then yeh, they're just words.