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Re: Spanking your kids?
abusing is bad
Originally Posted by Lalalila
In my opinion if someone don't know how to raise child without spanking he shouldn't have kids, there are others punishments better then spanking, there's always kicking, stabbing, cutting, closing in tight dark places... Ok I'm joking
but spanking is bad!
were you spanked as a child?
when i look at people my age, 20, i can easily pick out who was spanked when they were younger and who wasn't
after seeing the out come of that, i don't want my kids to grow up and be adults like the ones i know who admit they weren't spanked.
and yes, i do ask people.
i agree with mal, at a certain age you need to stop spanking your children and start to treat them like individuals who are becoming self aware, and can be taught things in a way that doesn't have to be immediate.
like groundings, the lesson is learned more sollidly the longer the child has to deal with not having what they want.
but i firmly believe what the bible says "spare the rod
hate your child"
that's right, not "spoil," "hate"