Originally Posted by OG
so hyde is ok with gays as long as they dont talk about anything relating to being so. thats not really accepting gays, its more of, u want to be ignorant of them being gay. (unless you and ur friends are the type to neverrrrr talk about ur own relationships/love/sex/etc with each other) if it was acceptable, it would be like any other thing guys talk about, like if their gf been bitching at them, a gay guy should be able to say how his bf has been bitching at him. if the guy was talking about hot steamy anal he had last night then yea thats going overboard, but not because its gay, but because its too much detail about his sex life. wouldnt want to hear my friends talking about their sexual experiences for daily chat or anything lol XD
We really don't talk much about our family life, because work... at times is an escape from home. Sure, both he and she have stated how their partners are nagging at them at times. We don't carry on an hour's worth of conversation about that. We don't do it when my straight workers are talking about their spouses or boy/girlfriends. Bad conversation that can get even worse pretty quick.
When I say obnoxious gay person, I'm referring to a person who is the "we're queer and we are here" type of person. When the only thing you want to talk about is being gay, that's over the top. I want to talk to a person interested in sports, cars, and manga/anime. Can we talk about sex, sometimes, until it reaches the point in which you talked about.
I literally worked with a guy, and his first statement to you if he didn't know you was "I'm gay, does that bother you?" Maybe I'm old-fashioned in wanting to know a person's name first. But once you got to know the guy (he was an asshole by the way, he proudly admits to it), he was one of the guys. But he was also the type to have the "sex" talks in which most guys left the conversation group as well. Only women wanted to hear it (I made this assumption, because they were the ones who stayed and listened to him).