Originally Posted by jekyl_hyde
We really don't talk much about our family life, because work... at times is an escape from home. Sure, both he and she have stated how their partners are nagging at them at times. We don't carry on an hour's worth of conversation about that. We don't do it when my straight workers are talking about their spouses or boy/girlfriends. Bad conversation that can get even worse pretty quick.
When I say obnoxious gay person, I'm referring to a person who is the "we're queer and we are here" type of person. When the only thing you want to talk about is being gay, that's over the top. I want to talk to a person interested in sports, cars, and manga/anime. Can we talk about sex, sometimes, until it reaches the point in which you talked about.
I literally worked with a guy, and his first statement to you if he didn't know you was "I'm gay, does that bother you?" Maybe I'm old-fashioned in wanting to know a person's name first. But once you got to know the guy (he was an asshole by the way, he proudly admits to it), he was one of the guys. But he was also the type to have the "sex" talks in which most guys left the conversation group as well. Only women wanted to hear it (I made this assumption, because they were the ones who stayed and listened to him).
gay people who do those types of things are rareeee though, i live in the bay area, ive seen and met my fair share of gays lol
i find that the ones that do say they are gay the moment they see/meet someone, are usually just insecure or just attention whoring, because ohhhhh they gayyyy. so its not because of the being gay part, but more of their personality part. its the same thing if they are also overly expressing their love of the same sex. You should link it to their personality rather than their sexual preferences.