Originally Posted by OG
i find that the ones that do say they are gay the moment they see/meet someone, are usually just insecure or just attention whoring, because ohhhhh they gayyyy. so its not because of the being gay part, but more of their personality part. You should link it to their personality rather than their sexual preferences.
that's what i'm saying. if how you identify yourself is based solely on your sexual orientation... you're pathetic.
and maybe it's because of the areas i've lived in, south and midwest, but there are more "out there" gay people than one would think.
just because i don't agree about one aspect of a person doesn't mean i'm not going to socialize with that person. if that were the case, i'd lose my brother, older cousin, and an aunt. i love all three of them, just don't agree with that aspect of their life. but i'm not going to go out of my way to socialize with a gay person either. if we have things in common, we'll socialize. if we don't, i'm not going to waste your time or mine.
i seriously do my best to follow the teaching: love the sinner, not the sin.