Originally Posted by Shrike
Well, that's pretty much a definition of a friendzone. Nothing strange, I dunno how you find it an excuse. There are many people who are horrible with women. They are mostly nice guys who kept dreaming about having a girl and when the time came to realize "hey shit, why dont i do this and actually have a girl" they are already far behind with the experience.
Then, they try to woo the women by being real nice to them and having a completely wrong approach, and they aren't seen as possible partners. Thus, they are friendzoned.
It's no excuse though. It's just that their intent was different and their whining is understood. It's really simple why, too, because they are butthurt over being polite and nice to someone who, mostly, already doesn't see them as a possible partner. On the other hand, you have morons who fuck the best looking chicks out there, and people are butthurt over it.
Life will teach them experience, as it happens with everybody. Let them whine.
My take on "friend-zoning" is that women generally like to have guy friends they view as brothers, either because they don't like most girls or to help with all of their guy issues.
The pussies who end up in the "friend zone" don't have the balls to make their intentions clear and think that somehow in some way, if they just keep being super nice and acting like the regular friend the woman is treating them as
then said woman will eventually realize with absolutely no hint that the guy wants to get his romance on. They convince themselves that living with hope in friend zone agony is better than ruining the friendship and losing any chance.
It's understandable that they whine about it only because whining is what people do when they're too much of a pussy to do anything constructive.