HELP ME PLEASE!! - Page 4

dEcCrIx · 11-28-2007, 10:22 AM

^ r u like... screamin? O_o

dont take that seriously...

about the situation... i thinks its still kinda early for the guy to say "i love u"... i learned that the hard way >__>;

fieldscarcrow · 11-28-2007, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Greendayfan82905

CHRIS IS NOT FREAKIN EMO. YOU SHOULDN'T FREAKIN JUDGE HIM WHEN YOU DONT EVEN FREAKIN KNOW HIM.

i lul'd

anyway we all agree you should jsut bring it up to him. The best thing you can do is to start being comfortable with coming to him with problems. And this is a great place to start because its an easy problem. Once you establish a smooth connection you might start to feel that your ready to say "I love you" and so you both can be ahppy and you adressed the problem like a big girl.

Yes I can be a deemeaning prick, get over it.

OG · 11-28-2007, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Greendayfan82905

CHRIS IS NOT FREAKIN EMO. YOU SHOULDN'T FREAKIN JUDGE HIM WHEN YOU DONT EVEN FREAKIN KNOW HIM.

then can we assume that you know him well?
if that's the case, you should be able to talk to him about it easily and without "fear"

//durr...

11-28-2007, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Greendayfan82905

CHRIS IS NOT FREAKIN EMO. YOU SHOULDN'T FREAKIN JUDGE HIM WHEN YOU DONT EVEN FREAKIN KNOW HIM.

Oh lawd. Lol.

UchihaTaijiya · 11-28-2007, 02:55 PM

Another question: What do you know of his past relationships? Has he had several or is he inexperienced?

And uh, have you talked to him at all about this yet?

Greendayfan82905 · 11-28-2007, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by UchihaTaijiya

Another question: What do you know of his past relationships? Has he had several or is he inexperienced?

And uh, have you talked to him at all about this yet?

no

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Originally Posted by Miburo

Oh lawd. Lol.

what's so freakin funny

OG · 11-28-2007, 03:13 PM

the fact that you fail to give us anymore info on this thing and disregarding most of our comments make me wonder...perhaps you just wanted people to "talk" to you on NL e.e...

it's no wonder we have to assume things ourselves neh?

//blah

fieldscarcrow · 11-28-2007, 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Greendayfan82905

no

what's so freakin funny

we're all giving you same advice, we all agree, shut up. Take the advice and do something about it. Stop posting on the thread. Stop talking and start acting.

Greendayfan82905 · 11-28-2007, 03:32 PM

I took whoever's advice was to tell him that i dont love him and that if he loves me he'll understand that and i also took miyuki's advice. [she gave me advice in a pm since she knows the guy too]

fieldscarcrow · 11-28-2007, 03:33 PM

if you say "I dont love you" that could crush the kid, i would have said "im not ready to say i love you yet" But okay

UchihaTaijiya · 11-29-2007, 02:12 AM

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Originally Posted by DarkAztek

Here's the deal... Confront him about it. Ask if he meant like, "love" playfully or for real. If he says for real, get the FUCK away from him because he's crazy.

Seconded. >.<;;

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Originally Posted by Greendayfan82905

no

So you don't know about his dating history.... okay, well damn, that could have helped in determining his motives...

How long have you known him? If you've been friends for awhile, maybe his "I love you" stems from feelings he's kept to himself. And he's just got really anxious and spit it out? o.o

If you've just met and just hooked up, then... well, my first impulse is to tell you to end the relationship... but, er, to be fair, you like the guy and I don't know him, so the best thing to do is talk to him and let him know that it's way to soon to say that. But you still like him and want to get to know him. Yeah.

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Originally Posted by Oakgyrl510

the fact that you fail to give us anymore info on this thing and disregarding most of our comments make me wonder...perhaps you just wanted people to "talk" to you on NL e.e...

it's no wonder we have to assume things ourselves neh?

//blah

More information would definitely be helpful. >.<

YoshiToshi · 11-29-2007, 04:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Greendayfan82905

Okay i started going out with the guy i like 35 minutes ago and we hung up the phone with each other cuz he had to do something at 3:30, and we had been dating for 20 min. And i said "Bye" and he said "I love you". Its sweet that he loves me and all... but after 20 min i don't love him. I like him a lot but thats it...
I hung up the phone right after he said it, pretending that i didn't hear it. But what if he says that tomorrow in rl. I can't just hang up a phone and say i didn't hear him cuz it's rl.
i want nl's opinion on this cuz the people i've met so far on nl are pretty nice so yeah.

I apparently showed up late for the peak lol of this thread... As usual. I was gonna give you some nice advice, but seeing as how immature you are as a 14 year old, my advice had a change of heart.
If he said he loved you after only 20 min, either he doesn't love you and those are just words, or what was said before about the fact that he's clingy. I don't know about the emo stuff, since I don't know him enough to say that; but it seems like you need to confront him and ask him if he really meant what he said when he said "i love you" or not. Because the moment you want to say if for real and he says "i love you too", you'll have no idea if he's really saying the truth, or just saying it.

WORDS ARE CHEAP.

edit:...though, not all the time, if that gave you the wrong impression. lol Words can mean alot. But if they don't mean anything, then yeh, they're just words.

11-28-2007, 10:22 AM	#46
dEcCrIx Snake Eyes Yeah! Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: kicking zombie's arses Age: 27 Posts: 1,012 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	Re: HELP ME PLEASE!! ^ r u like... screamin? O_o dont take that seriously... about the situation... i thinks its still kinda early for the guy to say "i love u"... i learned that the hard way >__>; __________________ NEVER FORGET thx Ninja48 FC's: Akatsuki FC Death Note FC Fighting Game FC

11-28-2007, 02:55 PM	#50
UchihaTaijiya sublimis ab unda Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 2,777 Thanks: 7,387 Thanked 3,312 Times in 1,249 Posts	Re: HELP ME PLEASE!! Another question: What do you know of his past relationships? Has he had several or is he inexperienced? And uh, have you talked to him at all about this yet? __________________ If the elephants have past lives yet are destined to always remember It's no wonder how they scream Like you and I they must have some temper And I am dreaming of them on the plains Dirtying up their beds Watching for some sign of rain to cool their hot heads And how dare that you send me that card when I'm doing all that I can do You are forcing me to remember when all I want is to just forget you If the tiger shall protect her young then tell me how did you slip by All my instincts have failed me for once I must have somehow slept the whole night And I am dreaming of them with their kill Tearing it all apart Blood dripping from their lips and teeth sinking into heart And how dare that you say you'll call When you know I need some peace of mind If you have to take sides with the animals Won't you do it with one who is kind And if the hawks in the trees need the dead If you're living you don't stand a chance For a time though you share the same bed There are only two ends to this dance You can flee with your wounds just in time or lie there as he feeds Watching yourself ripped to shreds and laughing as you bleed So for those of you falling in love keep it kind Keep it good Keep it right Throw yourself in the midst of danger but keep one eye open at night

11-28-2007, 03:13 PM	#52
OG [잊지 말아요] Join Date: Aug 2005 Age: 25 Posts: 7,624 Thanks: 2,234 Thanked 4,188 Times in 1,817 Posts	Re: HELP ME PLEASE!! the fact that you fail to give us anymore info on this thing and disregarding most of our comments make me wonder...perhaps you just wanted people to "talk" to you on NL e.e... it's no wonder we have to assume things ourselves neh? //blah __________________

11-28-2007, 03:32 PM	#54
Greendayfan82905 Chuunin Join Date: Sep 2007 Age: 20 Posts: 309 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: HELP ME PLEASE!! I took whoever's advice was to tell him that i dont love him and that if he loves me he'll understand that and i also took miyuki's advice. [she gave me advice in a pm since she knows the guy too] __________________ Awesome rl friends that come here: Miyuki Tsuki Desori redninja116 Awesome NL friends: gaaraofthesand.1234 tenkaichymaster

11-28-2007, 03:33 PM	#55
fieldscarcrow Missing-Nin Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Long island, New york Age: 21 Posts: 1,729 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	Re: HELP ME PLEASE!! if you say "I dont love you" that could crush the kid, i would have said "im not ready to say i love you yet" But okay

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