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Re: Whats wrong with being mean on a forum?
i believe you, no question, and i'd never doubt OG, but nonetheless, i'd like to see those pics.
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Re: Whats wrong with being mean on a forum?
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Not having a reason to care means that you don't have any kind of feeling toward being reasonable toward a stranger. You don't care about them. The reason why not caring isn't reasonable is because it's not reasonable to not have any feelings toward another's feelings. The reason why it's not reasonable to not have any feelings toward another's feelings is because you don't have a fair reason to hurt them like that. Your reason to hurt them like that obviously can't be you don't care, because that's actually what we're analyzing right now and even if you say it's that you don't care that you don't care, that's still not a fair reason toward their feelings. Once you have a good reason, it's not as unreasonable anymore. To reiterate, simply not caring can hurt them, and you have no fair reason to do that when they've done nothing to you. Is that your fault? No. Because it's kind of something in your nature. But you're naturally unreasonable when it comes to strangers' feelings, it seems. This is just how humans made the definition of reasonable. It really stems from fairness. Quote:
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You do care, though. Just not a lot from what I can tell. After all, you don't go around hurting feelings for no reason at all, so that's a decent bit or rationality right there. So as a whole: Not caring about other's isn't fair for them, it's biased of you, and that's why it's unreasonable. Now is it reasonable of me to expect you to just magcially care? No.
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Re: Whats wrong with being mean on a forum?
Seriously.
No I don't. lol
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Re: Whats wrong with being mean on a forum?
In this case, I mostly do agree with Fayrra.
Yes, you do. Boxxy is only cute in one video, she is chubby and is not that pretty at all. And I said cute. Which is FAR from beautiful. Heck, I have been with women who look far better. Edit: And yeah, OG >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Boxxy. Last edited by Shrike; 07-10-2010 at 06:17 AM. |
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Re: Whats wrong with being mean on a forum?
I get out plenty. And on top of that, there's sooo many girls at high school. I've already been through two girls whom held the position of 'the most beautiful.' Boxxy's the third.
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On a side note, did you see this? ![]() It should totally go in your signature. From what I hear, that's actually from the anime, too. XD His face goes through so much rage, metamorphosis, and total fuck I just couldn't help but lol. How can you take yourself seriously as an animator after that?
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Re: Whats wrong with being mean on a forum?
IF I SEE THAT
FUCKING BOXXY ONE MORE TIME! cpas |
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DO YOU READ WHAT YOU WRITE ALSO HOW IS IT NOT FAIR I HAVE NO OBLIGATIONS TO BE NICE TO ANYONE PLEASE PRESENT A FORMAL ARGUMENT AS TO WHY IT ISNT RATIONAL AND FAIR OTHERWISE YOURE JUST BULLSHITTING IM NOT GOING TO BREAK DOWN SILLY ARGUMENTS LIKE ITS NOT REASONABLE IS BECAUSE ITS NOT REASONABLE BLAH BLAH PRESENT VALID PREMISES AND CONCLUSIONS FOR FUCKS SAKE REALITY IS IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH FAIRNESS BECAUSE IT IS PERFECTLY FAIR I DONT GIVE A SHIT ABOUT STRANGERS I DONT EXPECT STRANGERS TO GIVE A SHIT ABOUT ME I OWE THEM NOTHING THEY OWE ME NOTHING SCALE IS BALANCED THAT IS TEXTBOOK FAIRNESS RIGHT THERE SEE HOW I DONT HAVE TO GO ROUND IN CIRCLES TO PRESENT A SIMPLE GODDAMN ARGUMENT ITS BECAUSE ITS SIMPLE SHIT NO ASSUMED PREMISES LIKE ITS NOT FAIR TO THEIR FEELINGS THAT YOU HAVENT BACKED UP WITH ANY LOGIC WHATSOEVER IM PRETTY MUCH JUST TAKING THE DEFAULTS AND GOING WITH THAT I SEE NO REASON TO ASSUME THAT I OWE STRANGERS ANYTHING NOR ANY REASON TO ASSUME THEY OWE ME ANYTHING THEREFORE UNLESS A VALID LOGICAL REASON IS PRESENTED THE LOGICAL THING TO DO IS ASSUME THOSE DEFAULTS YOU HAVENT PRESENTED A LOGICALLY VALID REASON TO ADOPT ANYTHING CONTRARY TO THE DEFAULTS SO LOGICALLY YOUR CLAIMS FAIL THATS HOW THIS SHIT WORKS ILL BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO LINK YOU TO SHIT THAT DESCRIBES THE SIMPLE LOGICAL PRINCIPLES IM USING SUCH AS THE PRINCIPLE OF BURDEN OF PROOF AND OCCAMS RAZOR IF YOU LIKE FEEL FREE TO DO THE SAME WITH WHATEVER LOGICAL PRINCIPLES YOURE APPLYING IN YOUR ARGUMENTS AS WELL BECAUSE IM DEFINITELY OVERLOOKING THEM AND HOLY SHIT IS THAT REALLY FROM THE ANIMU THAT IS WELL KIND OF EXPECTED NARUTO IS SUCH GARBAGE MASSIVE POAST FUCK YEAH cpas |
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Re: Whats wrong with being mean on a forum?
^*DOKI DOKI DOKI*
YOUR COMPLEX WORD/BRAIN THINGS MAKE MY HEART THUMP QUICKLY CARING ABOUT PEOPLE I DONT KNOW WOULDNT THAT JUST GIVE ME EXTRA STRESS THUS HARMING MYSELF WHY WOULD ANY RATIONAL PERSON HARM THEMSELVEScasp
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Re: Whats wrong with being mean on a forum?
Here's how I do it:
- If I don't personally know someone, I neither like nor dislike them. - In order for me to like someone, they have to do something I like. - In order for me to dislike someone, they have to do something I dislike. - If I don't like someone, I'm not going to bother with niceties. |
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^THAT IS PRETTY MUCH HOW I ROLL TOO
I ACTUALLY FOLLOW A COMPLEX PERSONAL HONOR CODE BASED AROUND INTEGRITY AND MANLINESS ITS PRETTY COMPLICATED AND THERE ARE PROBABLY A COUPLE OF PARTS THAT DONT MAKE MUCH LOGICAL SENSE BUT YEAH IM POLITE AS FUCK AND SHIT AND IF I SAW SOME LOLI AND OTHER RANDOM STRANGERS BEING MUGGED AT KNIFEPOINT OR SOME SHIT ID DEFINITELY BREAK SOME MUGGER FACES DUE TO ME BEING A CHIVALROUS MANLY HERO AND WHATNOT NOT BECAUSE I ACTUALLY GIVE A FUCK ABOUT STRANGERS AND ESPECIALLY NOT BECAUSE I CARE ABOUT THEIR FEELINGS IF FAYRRA SAID THAT BEING MEAN TO PEOPLE FOR NO REASON IS DOUCHEBAGGISH OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT THEN ID AGREE HE SAID THAT IF YOU DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLES FEELINGS THEN YOURE IRRATIONAL AND UNFAIR THATS WRONG BECAUSE NOT GIVING A FUCK ABOUT PEOPLES FEELINGS IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THAN BEING A DOUCHE FOR NO REASON YOU DONT HAVE TO GIVE A FUCK ABOUT PEOPLE TO BE NICE TO THEM cpas |
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Re: Whats wrong with being mean on a forum?
lol. Yeah.
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Premise: You and this stranger don't know each other, have no relations, etc. You don't care for that person's feelings, and end up hurting him. Conclusion: He's hurt, you're fine. Tell me how that's fair in anyway possible? An eye for an eye is fair. Getting back at someone when they did something to you is fair. You telling the truth and hurting them is fair. Them just getting hurt when they have done nothing to you isn't. Oh, and the reminds me, you said you couldn't think of a way to be illogical and fair? Well how about this: A stranger or a friend is about to die. The fair thing to do would be to either choose randomly between them or let them both die, however, the logical thing to do would be to save your friend, the one you care about most. If you don't do this, you'd be illogical, but fair. Quote:
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The default position for a psychopath is killing people for fun. He has no reason to care for people that he doesn't know because he's naturally born with no emotions such as those. He's the same as you in that respect. He sees no logical reason to care. No reason to not kill strangers because he doesn't care. He doesn't expect for people to not hate him or not kill him back. He thinks of it as perfectly fair. Yet, what he's doing is not fair at all. And any reasonable person can see this. These people have done nothing to him, the only reason he kills them is because he has no bond's with them. He just goes about his daily life; because killing is his daily life. It's nothing personal or anything. If you're in the wrong place, then oh well. If it weren't for that, he wouldn't have killed them. This, Miburo, is a very extreme version of what you're doing. Now, don't get me wrong here, because I do make weird analogies that seem outrageous: Everything that matters fits. You not caring, and seeing no reason to care. It being your default position, etc. The only thing that doesn't fit is that you're not hurting them on purpose. It's just like "if they happen to have they're feelings hurt, then oh well." But the only thing that changes is that it makes you less unreasonable (other than the fact that generally killing people is a lot more worse than hurting they're feelings, I know that's a huge difference as well). The point is, just because you're a shit ton of more reasonable than a psychopath, doesn't change the fact that you're still being unreasonable like one. Quote:
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Killing (lol). Some people do it on purpose, while other's do it on accident when going about their daily lives. In this scenario you're the latter. The main similarity and principle that the former and the latter have in common is that they both don't care (for my analogy, at least). See, I don't expect you or Mal to be nice to people you don't know. That would be a lot of trouble, and it isn't like they are your friends. However, when people accidentally hurt another, they normally care, even if they are strangers. And then they say sorry, because they actually care. That's not you, from what I hear. Because you don't care, you're going to be hurting them when you go about your daily life, and then it's just "Oh fucking well, I don't give a shit, I'm not a pussy, I have no reason to care." It's not fair for strangers to get hurt just because of that, but what makes it even more unreasonable is just the simple fact that, they're getting hurt, and you still don't care. That's just how you are in your nature. The reason why reasonable people care is because thats' just how they are in their nature. That's their default position. I told you this is an emotion thing. It's not an an objective default stance like atheism. Majority of humans aren't like you anyway, and actually do care about strangers (obviously not as much as one cares for one's friends or family). I don't know where you're getting this as an objective default stance that I have to defeat from. Your reason to not care is you don't care. Their reason to care is that they do care. It's that simple. It's both their defualt nature's. If we analyze it even further it'll just come out with both of us confused. The only reason one is more fair than the other is because one has genuine concern for the pain of other's. The pain that you intentionally or unintentionally caused. That's all. I'll admit, one's more logical while the other is more emotional, but that doesn't make it wrong objectively. Reasonable people care, unreasonable people don't. This is a fact to me based off of the concepts of the definitions. I understand that you're not going out and being a douchbag for no reason. Instead you're indirectly being mean and then not caring about it because you see no logical reason to (unless, of course, it being fair is a logical reason, but it seems more like an emotional reason to me). I mean, come on, if you hurt someone (intentional or not) when they didn't do anything to you, isn't it only fair to care about it? Isn't it not fair not to? And by caring, obviously that means you care about their feelings. Like a 'normal' person. Or societies' idea of normal, I wager. Not caring will eventually lead to you hurting someone. You can't escape that. The key is whether you're going to care or not when you hurt them. If you don't it isn't fair, since you're the cause of the pain, but if you do then that means you care about their feelings. That was the whole point of my first post that you responded to anyway, when you said "I'm fair, but I don't care about their feelings." The whole point was in the context of hurting them in some way. At least answer that bolded question for me. I mean, there's nothing I can really say. I tried the formal debate thing and probably failed. I'm probably just repeating myself and it's probably just pissing you off. This is probably my final bout. If you can't understand it, I'll just have to write you off as somewhat unreasonable for this situation. I understand everything you've said so far, and have tried to comply with it. You can just write me off as a massive idiot, or whatever have you, in return.
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Re: Whats wrong with being mean on a forum?
Oh, you silly face. She's not my girl. But yeah, I know. <3 <3 <3
Did you really have to quote that whole thing? lol
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Re: Whats wrong with being mean on a forum?
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HOLY CRAP I DID NOT READ ONE WORD OF THAT NOT ONE KNOW WHY THIS IS NOT A DEBATE ON TO MORE IMPORTANT THINGS AT WORK I AM NICE TO CUSTOMERS AND RESPECTFUL CAUSE THEY PAY FOR ME TO WORK UNTIL THEY ARE RUDE OR JSUT DOUCHE BAGS IN GENERAL THEN YOU GET NONE OF MY SMILES OR DISCOUNTS THAT I DONT TELL YOU ABOUT AND YOU DONT DISCOVER UNTILL YOU EXAMINE YOUR RECIEPT AT HOMEcasp
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