-SassyLady-

Look it up yourself, your on the Internet be resourceful.

Here I'll help halfway.

www.merriam-webster.com

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kael03

"A bit slow" is being extremely generous.

Numinous

To be honest, I don't blame people for not knowing what friendzoning is. That's probably the most moronic word invented tied with "shawty" and "YOLO", so who doesn't know it is doing themselves a favor.

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ACt

Friend zoning is a horrible excuse for a sentiment. It literally defines it self as "aw, c'mon woman, why won't you just sleep with me like I want you to". Ugh. Kids is fucked up.

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Demi-God

I see "friendzoning" as when somebody says they don't want to ruin the friendship by turning it into a relationship despite both parties being fond of one another. Though that's not the common definition, these days it's come to mean "I was nice to her and made up a contract in my head that she should bed me, but she didn't. NICE GUYS ALWAYS LOSE!"

ACt

Nah. Always see it used between guys "Ah, you got put in the friend zone. That sucks dude." "Yeah, I don't get it - I was totally nice to her. Why do women like jerks?"

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Shrike

Well, that's pretty much a definition of a friendzone. Nothing strange, I dunno how you find it an excuse. There are many people who are horrible with women. They are mostly nice guys who kept dreaming about having a girl and when the time came to realize "hey shit, why dont i do this and actually have a girl" they are already far behind with the experience.

Then, they try to woo the women by being real nice to them and having a completely wrong approach, and they aren't seen as possible partners. Thus, they are friendzoned.

It's no excuse though. It's just that their intent was different and their whining is understood. It's really simple why, too, because they are butthurt over being polite and nice to someone who, mostly, already doesn't see them as a possible partner. On the other hand, you have morons who fuck the best looking chicks out there, and people are butthurt over it.

Life will teach them experience, as it happens with everybody. Let them whine.

Eternal Solitude

Thanks 4 da help everyone.
Um...does anyone know about my sensei (Stubborn Donkey) I mean where he is...usually I'd b asking him about stuff like dis, and why is da User names of some members RED ?

Dat dictionary really helped, internet can help but...not like...
Still confused about Trolling.
Just trolling in da market
Taking a stroll in da market


Fine I'm da dumbest guy in da universe! u happy now

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Numinous

Check urban dictionary.

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Shrike

ES, do you know how to use Google? If yes, then fucking use it. If not then you are pretty much retarded and nobody will tell you anyway.

Mal

My take on "friend-zoning" is that women generally like to have guy friends they view as brothers, either because they don't like most girls or to help with all of their guy issues.

The pussies who end up in the "friend zone" don't have the balls to make their intentions clear and think that somehow in some way, if they just keep being super nice and acting like the regular friend the woman is treating them as then said woman will eventually realize with absolutely no hint that the guy wants to get his romance on. They convince themselves that living with hope in friend zone agony is better than ruining the friendship and losing any chance.

It's understandable that they whine about it only because whining is what people do when they're too much of a pussy to do anything constructive.

ACt

Shrike - What I'm saying is the term was invented by and most commonly used by guys who expected sex for just for being nice, as if women were wrong to "friend zone" them. I'm not calling an excuse, I'm saying the whole reasoning behind it is horrible.

That it's caught on and everyone uses it doesn't change what it sprung from.

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Demi-God

I was nice to Phil and he friendzoned me. He only likes jerks! And females, but that's not the point here.

Shrike

Yeah, women like to have males following them around, but they are sure to discard the said male quite fast when they get into a relationship.

I wouldn't say it's as simple as "they didn't make their intentions clear" though. They didn't come right up and say "hey i wanna fuck you, you up?" because nobody does that, so they start by inviting them to coffee or a walk or something. This usually ends up as a pretty okay "date" except that the women never saw it as a date. Only a nicely spent time with a guy who is fun to be around, but he is not to be confused with a possible partner. Why? Because he was funny and all that on that date but didn't "give any signs that were showing his intentions".

In the same situation, from the guys perspective, he is all like "hell yeah, i liked that first date, she definitely likes my jokes and shit, i ll nail that", which is, for the sad guy, completely wrong.

Because he cannot decide when is the right moment to "go in" (at that point it's already useless, there is no right moment for him anymore in 99% of the cases), he spends a few "dates" only hanging out with her and hopes for a good chance to show his intentions (but he is a pussy and he cannot do it).

Couple of weeks later, she calls him and is all like "I found a great guy!" (the guys interpret this as "his dick is huge!"). And then, he realizes that he is Friendzoned.

Now, up to that point, I can understand people who get there and whine, because it's a regular thing to happen. I had a similar situation when I was 17 or 18, not gonna lie (although the circumstances ware different, I did have sex with her).

But guys who keep being friends even though they are flipping out their shit because of her, and STILL keep listening to her stories (especially those stories about what they mind about their boyfriend) like : "goddamn do you know what jery did to me? he asked me to fuck both him and tom, the jerk!! he later said that he was joking but i was hella mad!" and he is all like "why do you stay with him then?" (BE WITH ME PLEASE PLEASE).

^those guys deserve 0 respect. Better to be forever alone then to be a fucking pussy and a moron.

T9F

ACt, just take all my nickels. It's just easier if you take them all now so I don't have to keep track of how many I owe you.

I think that girls that allow for guys that they see in a completely platonic relationship do boyfriend-like things for them because they're taking advantage of them are dumb bitches, but when it's just a case of "I can literally never see you as anything past a friend and I'm not leading you on, you're just acting like you own this because you're nice" it's not the girls fault.

It's his fault.

His.

Or hers because ladies get "friendzoned" too.