Hunter-Nin

who you are now telling us its long distance so you have never actaully met this girl in person damn why would you give a shit if she breaks up with you get yourself someone new and hot if you can that is.

gaaraofthesand.1234

I wanted to read it, i wanted to help. But i fell a sleep while reading it. can you just summerize it for us lazzy people?

fieldscarcrow

Yeah shes the one who told me to message her.

And I told her when I get out of high school, I'll move there. Go to a collage THERE, so she can still be near her family like she wants. I also that I might have to move to florida if my shool doesnt get better but then I told her as soon as I move Id send her a ticket to come see me, or ill see about going there. Id also move there when im old enough

It urks me cause if she can do it, why cant I? (If i change it, she doesnt get too happy)


To hunter nin=

She is hot, I mean...like..damn. Also, why would I care? I never felt this way about a person before. I havnt cryed in years, and I start to cry just thinking about us breaking up, or us never being together. I dont care what anyone says about us,and long distance. I love her. "Oh but nick, you're to younge to know what love is!" Bullshit. I felt everything possible, but never this. Never this feeling of completion and purpose. So id give a big shit cause shes everythign to me

Hunter-Nin

its funny how you still are in 11th grade and long distance mean while she can be kicking it with someone else and lie to you and do you honstley think long distance will go for another 2 years.

MikeyM1979

That's pretty silly then. She may have some sort of strange emotional issues to work out.

Cool. There still needs to be a waiting time period there, though. I know out of experience, that waiting sucks. Especially when you know there's other potential people who you can go out with in real life. What did she say to all of that, by the way?

Really? If I were you, I'd change it to something involving a name like, Cherry Darling. Just to spite her. But that's just me!

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fieldscarcrow

[QUOTE=MikeyM1979;1298218]There still needs to be a waiting time period there, though. I know out of experience, that waiting sucks. Especially when you know there's other potential people who you can go out with in real life. What did she say to all of that, by the way?QUOTE]

When I told her about florida, her voice sounded like her stomache had dropped and she told me to change the subject. When I told her about me moving to there and going to college there, she said she was uber happy but didnt sound like that cause of "girl problems" *ahem* if you get what i mean.

MikeyM1979

Wow. And, that doesn't like, tip you off that something isn't right? I think now that you've invested too much time into this.

What, PMS?

No, she didn't even SOUND happy, but she said she was. Right.

I hate to say this, but it sounds like you need to move on and get a real girl. By real, I mean one that you can physically touch. And appreciates you.

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fieldscarcrow

Lol you have to first understand my gf to see what im so "No wai guys, she loves me" When shes pmsing...she has realy freaky emotions. No, I know everygirl has them. But she could be having and orgasm, then just start crying, then laughing, then sad....in the matter of 3 seconds because of something like a muffin or something. I could have also told her that I was gonna be there tomorrow and she would cry for the weirdest sadest reason lol. She also has alot of insecuriy problems, shes 5'2 and 115 lbs...and she thinks shes fat even though..shes as skinny as her cheerleader friend.... She cares ALOT about what people think as well.

Another reason why I dont think we're dead is cause her brother picked on her about not being able to see me and she got hysterical.

Also tonight when I told her "Dude you sent some fuck a message and you didnt even send me anything?" she was like "...omg..im sorry, im sorry, im sorry" me:" I dont doubt that you are" and she was like "you make it sound like I dont love you" and I said "I know you do" she then replied "good, cause I do..and im realy sorry"

Btw there was about 20 more sorries from her in the convo

MikeyM1979

Bi-polar.

o_O

Not good. She needs to care about herself and not what others think.

I don't get how that proves you two aren't dead.

Sorry, I gots no comments for that one. *shrug* But you know, you DID expect her to respond like that, no?

Oh.

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fieldscarcrow

I know its not good, and I try to help her with that but shes pretty dead set on not fixing that problem lol.

That proves we're not dead cause she was crying cause she hates how she gets picked on for having me as a bf. If she didnt love me, wouldnt she just stop the torture and call it quits?

No i didnt expect her to respond like that, she never responds like. Shes usualy quite, and I have to keep pushing for a responce. This time she just let it out.

Another reason: her dad says we can only talk for 30 minutes, and I told her that I think that her parents dont think its going to work, and she was like "well I dont care what my parents think,so dont worry about that."

Im not arrogant with reason.

Miburo

I was scrolling through that drivel of an original post anticipating the monumental amount of lameness that is sure to follow, and was pleasantly surprised with the first reply. Despite what some over-emotional OPs might think, that was fucking awesome. Well done.

@OP-Testosterone hormonal therapy. Look into it. Seriously. That's what I'd expect for a 12 year old girl's livejournal. Your girlfriend cheated on you at one time, you should have dumped the bitch then. There's a shit-ton of girls out there, don't compromise your pride over one skank. Just make sure you're not all clingy and womany with the next one. Girls don't like that shit. Live and learn.

tenkaichymaster

Dude just relax 4 a moment u have a good reason 2 be angry. but dont let that get over you. dont be so depressed about it. Talk to her about how you feel and try to find a way to solve it. Dont worry all relationships have bad moments.

Try to know why do she hides you... solve it out and if nothing helps...
It means that you 2 were not meant to be... dont worry she is not the only person in the world. Just dont take it 2 seriously talk to her and try to solve it together.

UchihaTaijiya

I agree. Relationships are hard work, and they take two to be successful. I think you should consider how much good and how much bad comes from this relationship. Have you spent more time frustrated and concerned, or content and positive? So what's the verdict? I think figuring that out is crucial.

Hiding your relationship is a bad sign, to be straight forward. And as others have brought up, you're young and I'm assuming she is too. Don't think of this relationship as your 'everything'. Because it's not. And it certainly never will be if she continues to hide your relationship. For me, this would bring up more questions... like, what else are they hiding? And why can't they be proud of me and what we have? I don't know this girl, and I don't know her motives, but hiding a five year on-and-off relationship doesn't appeal to me much.

And I can understand why that would make you feel small. It seems you're bending over backwards for her and she's remaining stagnant. There's only so much you can do, maybe you should consider finding another girl who will appreciate your gestures and affection. Because trust me, there are women out there who love to know that they are needed and to feel appreciated.

Of course, I would suggest finding a girl who's closer to home. One you can get to know in person. I'm one to believe you can't really know someone if you've never spent time in their presence. I'm not sure if you've met face to face, so I wont say much more on that matter.

But really, relax and take it one step at a time. If it doesn't work out, you know you did your best and that you did right by her. And while you cared for her, sometimes the timing, the situation, just doesn't work in your favor. But hey, that's part of life and it's a lesson to be learned.

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hmm, ur and mabe?

Maybe if you learnt to eat less fried chicken and watermelon you wouldn't have to mash the keyboard, tubby =]


@Field- Look man, your not depressed for no reason, and its good to let all this out somewhere, but honestly there are better places to put this than NL, because as we can see, not alot of people sympathise with e-drama or people dumping their problems on the internet. If you want to talk to someone about it, talk to a friend or your parents or whoever the fuck it is that kids these days trust.

Just don't be surprised if these kids don't really care about what you're saying.

Good luck with your problems man.

EDIT- Oh and just incase this constitutes a flame, thank you in advance mods, i needed a vacation from NL =]

Kites

Kites' tored dat ass up

hahaha!


LOL ero put u on blast G. You gonna take that?

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