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Old 11-12-2007, 10:38 AM   #1
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u know friends can come and stay for a while but quickly go and some friends stay there for a while.i couple of weeks ago my best friend turned her back on me. we've been friends for almost 4 years and she's never done something as to turn her back on me!!!!!i've never did anything wrong to her!!!!!


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Old 11-12-2007, 12:00 PM   #2
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I have a feeling we're not getting the whole story, and the your being arrogant or ingnorant. Eitherway shut up and deal with her. Ask her what the flying frick is her problem and work it out with her. If you feel to betrayed to be mature and see if you can work things out, then say the hell with your friendship. This is probably over a guy, or something stupid like that. So dont be a cunt, just work the shit out. Your probably at fall as well so dont point the finger souly on her. See if you had anything to do with it, if you did say sorry and if you dont think you do see if she thinks you are somewhat at fault. Dont go "ITS ALL YOU OH EM GEEEEE!@!!111ONE" Also, your twelve. Your getting to the age now we're your boy crazy so like I said its probably over some dushe bag.

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Old 11-12-2007, 12:03 PM   #3
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Ninja stealth kill her. Fucking duh.
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Old 11-12-2007, 12:48 PM   #4
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see if she will have sex with you
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Old 11-12-2007, 02:07 PM   #5
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Re: Friends

Of course friends will come and go. It's hard to see friends stay friends from childhood into adulthood. Only when the friends are REALLY good friends, true to the heart and whatevers... will they be friends for a long time. Maybe your so-called "best friend" decided to drop you and make some new, more popular friends.
Or maybe you did something to her that would've made her angry at you. Don't say she "turned her back on you" quite just yet. Talk to her and see what's up. Because if you don't get the whole story and you don't find out why she's ticked, then you'll probably regret it later. I know you said you didn't do anything wrong to her to make her mad or sad or anything like that, but maybe she doesn't feel the same way. Something that could've said or did that was casual and just something you said, could've hurt your friend, so yea, talk to her.

Losing a friend isn't a great thing, but it happens. Things change, and you'll lose many a friend in the future. There are times when you and your friends may get into fights, and not talk for a day or even a couple of weeks. And then there are friends who decide they just don't want to be your friend anymore, or want to hang out with new people. Do yourself a favor and do the same. That best friend isn't the only person in the world. You don't need to find a new best friend, just some new friends. People to talk to and to chat with. But remember, a handful of good friends is better than a ton of friends.
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Old 11-12-2007, 02:09 PM   #6
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Re: Friends

Lol. Make-up sex. xDD

You need to evaluate the situation and see why she's pissed...maybe she has a grummpy attitude for some other reason, or maybe you did something wrong that you're not aware of. There are tons of reasons of why she could be mad at you.

If you did something wrong and apologize and she still mad, then wait around a while. If she's still mad at you over a long time, then say bye bye.
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Old 11-12-2007, 02:34 PM   #7
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Of course friends will come and go. It's hard to see friends stay friends from childhood into adulthood. Only when the friends are REALLY good friends, true to the heart and whatevers... will they be friends for a long time. Maybe your so-called "best friend" decided to drop you and make some new, more popular friends.
Or maybe you did something to her that would've made her angry at you. Don't say she "turned her back on you" quite just yet. Talk to her and see what's up. Because if you don't get the whole story and you don't find out why she's ticked, then you'll probably regret it later. I know you said you didn't do anything wrong to her to make her mad or sad or anything like that, but maybe she doesn't feel the same way. Something that could've said or did that was casual and just something you said, could've hurt your friend, so yea, talk to her.

Losing a friend isn't a great thing, but it happens. Things change, and you'll lose many a friend in the future. There are times when you and your friends may get into fights, and not talk for a day or even a couple of weeks. And then there are friends who decide they just don't want to be your friend anymore, or want to hang out with new people. Do yourself a favor and do the same. That best friend isn't the only person in the world. You don't need to find a new best friend, just some new friends. People to talk to and to chat with. But remember, a handful of good friends is better than a ton of friends.
wow that is good and deep.

I agree with toshi but also go out and make new friends or find out what is wrong with your old best friend.
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Old 11-12-2007, 03:03 PM   #8
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I have a feeling we're not getting the whole story, and the your being arrogant or ingnorant. Eitherway shut up and deal with her. Ask her what the flying frick is her problem and work it out with her. If you feel to betrayed to be mature and see if you can work things out, then say the hell with your friendship. This is probably over a guy, or something stupid like that. So dont be a cunt, just work the shit out. Your probably at fall as well so dont point the finger souly on her. See if you had anything to do with it, if you did say sorry and if you dont think you do see if she thinks you are somewhat at fault. Dont go "ITS ALL YOU OH EM GEEEEE!@!!111ONE" Also, your twelve. Your getting to the age now we're your boy crazy so like I said its probably over some dushe bag.
It seems you have on your tampon in today.

on topic.these things happen,it will play itself out.
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Old 11-12-2007, 03:27 PM   #9
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It seems you have on your tampon in today.

on topic.these things happen,it will play itself out.
1) Im not a girl
2) I dont wear tampons, I tryed and they made me uncomfortable
3) Im always like that.

I have sympathy for anyone's problems, but only when they dont involve a 12 year old being over dramatic by something that probably is smaller then nothing
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Old 11-12-2007, 06:25 PM   #10
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Re: Friends

there's always a reason...whether it is justifiable or not....

some people will be true friends while others are not...depends on a lot of factors....the length of a friendship also varies....
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Old 11-12-2007, 06:44 PM   #11
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Shes prolly just popular now and your not, it happens.
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Old 11-12-2007, 08:07 PM   #12
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Re: Friends

You definitely should talk to her and find out her side of the story. Do this in person, that never fails to be the best manner in dealing with relationships of any sort.

I've been best friends with Rachel for a decade. We've had our fights, but we always talked it over afterwards and apologized. I'm not saying this is guaranteed to happen for you two, but you have to address the problem before anything can be resolved.

Like Toshi pointed out, you may not realize what you did/said that upset your friend, so don't be 100% certain that you did nothing wrong.

But first off, how did she turn her back on you? In what manner? I could give better advice if I knew the circumstance...
And it could just be that she's having family/school problems and is keeping them to herself.... which is affecting her attitude. It might not even be about you, or at least not entirely.

Or sadly, it could be the popularity point brought up in this thread. I had two friends back in middle school who did the same thing. It hurts a little but then I realized that they were different from me. I never needed that validation, I was content with my social position and the people I considered friends. *shrugs*


Anyway, I hope this works out for you or that you at least gain some insight into friendship (if the friendship doesn't work out).
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Old 11-12-2007, 08:29 PM   #13
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You might want to avoid this part if you're not really a person who takes risks. 8D.
You should stick with your other friends for a while and keep a close eye on your other friend, just to check up on her or something like that. If you're popular enough, get some peers to go spy on her.

That's seriously what people at my school do. I haven't ever been in a situation like this (no, it is not lack of friends as the reason), but I've been sent to check up on people and stuff. Usually the two kids end up back together, but just make sure you don't get caught for doing this or something. /ignore

Gather up your courage and go talk to her. You'll get somewhere, hopefully. If it's because of popularity, though, she's not really someone you'd want to hang out with anymore, no matter how many years she's been your best friend.
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Old 11-12-2007, 08:59 PM   #14
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How the hell can anyone be giving serious advice to this...?

If you guys can help with something vague like the OP, maybe you can help me out with my problem too. Someone said something to me that made me feel some emotion. What do you think, lol?

Seriously, guys. What the hell? XD
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Old 11-12-2007, 10:17 PM   #15
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Re: Friends

Maybe your friend wanted to change,no one wants to be the same forever.
Not to be mean or anything but,did you at least try talking to your friend?...or do you just make threads on your life issues? o_O

and i agree with fieldscarcrow...you don't seem to tell us the whole story...your friend turns her back to you...was it that big of a deal to just make a thread bout it?
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