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Old 03-17-2011, 10:52 PM   #13111
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no she didnt, i read it kina, and kael seriously shut the fuck up you dont know what you are talking about.

she did not pull him aside and calm him down before telling him she didnt like the way he was taking his frustrations out on others, she came at him in the heat of the moment right after what was said.
You can't wait until someone calms down, man. That's were apologies happen. Some people don't want to live in a hostile environment.
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Old 03-17-2011, 10:52 PM   #13112
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its amazing how i give some advice and the swarm comes in like usual
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Old 03-17-2011, 10:52 PM   #13113
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no she didnt, i read it kina, and kael seriously shut the fuck up you dont know what you are talking about.
Says the guy that is claiming she didn't try to disarm the situation.

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she did not pull him aside and calm him down before telling him she didnt like the way he was taking his frustrations out on others, she came at him in the heat of the moment right after what was said.
She calmly told him it isn't fair to take it out on the rest of the family and that attitude would tear the family apart. I don't know what the fuck you were reading.

Seriously, shut up.
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Old 03-17-2011, 10:54 PM   #13114
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You can't wait until someone calms down, man. That's were apologies happen. Some people don't want to live in a hostile environment.
you either wait, or you pull them aside and calm them down before expressing your problems.
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Old 03-17-2011, 10:54 PM   #13115
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Oh, Kael, if I wasn't taken. XD
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Old 03-17-2011, 10:55 PM   #13116
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Oh, Kael, if I wasn't taken. XD
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Old 03-17-2011, 10:56 PM   #13117
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Tabby and I have a 'sharing is caring' policy.
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Says the guy that is claiming she didn't try to disarm the situation.



She calmly told him it isn't fair to take it out on the rest of the family and that attitude would tear the family apart. I don't know what the fuck you were reading.

Seriously, shut up.
you are an asshole, i get it, i rather you not even read my posts or respond to them. but since you have this obsession with coming at me and responding when ever i post i guess that wont happen

im not claiming she didnt try to disarm the situation, when did i say that, seriously you constantly just make things up. she obviously was trying to disarm it but i was giving my advice on how i would disarm it.

she calmly told him infront of her mother while her dad was heated and just snapped at her mother. maybe my advice would have been mroe effective, maybe the same result would have happened, but i would have done it my way and thats why i gave the advice.
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Old 03-17-2011, 11:00 PM   #13119
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That's non-confrontational bull. No one listens to that.
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That's non-confrontational bull. No one listens to that.
when is someone more likely to listen and process a problem that is had, when they are upset and heated and just snapped at someone or when they are calm and level headed.
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Old 03-17-2011, 11:05 PM   #13121
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When someone is angry, in the situation, they can see how nasty they're being, you can point it out. Sure, it might lead to screaming, but not everything can be solved with bunny slippers and marshmallows. Sometimes you have to stand up for yourself.
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Old 03-17-2011, 11:08 PM   #13122
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you are an asshole, i get it,
I was keeping it a secret?

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i rather you not even read my posts or respond to them.
Free forum and such. Don't like it? Leave.

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but since you have this obsession with coming at me and responding when ever i post i guess that wont happen
I have an obsession with responding to idiocy. You've been full of it lately soooooo... do the math.

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im not claiming she didnt try to disarm the situation, when did i say that, seriously you constantly just make things up.
You implied it by saying she didn't help the situation when she was trying to disarm it.

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she obviously was trying to disarm it but i was giving my advice on how i would disarm it.
Read what Kina said. No one goes for non-confrontational shit after something like that. Her dad would harbor that anger for a while and when it would be low enough for her to try your approach, it wouldn't be anywhere near effective. Behavioral Psychology 101, dipshit.

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she calmly told him infront of her mother while her dad was heated and just snapped at her mother.
Which is how most people would handle that type of situation.

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maybe my advice would have been mroe effective,
No, it wouldn't. The consequence of his behavior needs to be administered immediately after the behavior for the consequence to have any effect. When people stop showing signs of anger, they are in a "just below boiling point" range of emotions and making the comment then would've exacerbated the situation again.

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maybe the same result would have happened,
As a child of a broken home, I can tell you it would have ended up the same way. My parents fought all the time when I was growing up. When my mom would try to talk to my dad after a fight, they would start yelling again.

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but i would have done it my way and thats why i gave the advice.
Your advice was crap.

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Kael~. Don't be sad. <3 My mommy and daddy yelled a lot, tooooo.
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Re: The Longest Thread Ever v28

bunny slippers and marshmellows lol, how is waiting for the person to calm down or calming them down before bringing up a problem you have with them that. it makes the most sense, you dont deal with people when they are heated, drunk, anything under those lines.
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It lets people know they can walk all over you.
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